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Re: Pervert gone missing.

Postby Haylieh » Nov 1st, 2012, 7:30 pm

you know he was a good man until he did what he did he was a father of two girls a friend and a hero to his duaghter and she does read these things about her dad she sees every word you say what the world says about him and it hurts her and soon she will be one of those troubled kids because people wouldn't leave her family alone about her father
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Re: Pervert gone missing.

Postby the truth » Nov 2nd, 2012, 6:50 am

ya sure
would you be defending this guy,if it was your little girl he was trying to have sex with or rape. NOT
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Re: Pervert gone missing.

Postby Mama » Nov 2nd, 2012, 9:16 pm

I do feel bad for his daughter/s, but that does not change what he did or what he was. And the worlds reaction to his actions will not change the child, his actions, and the help she receives will.
I dont care who you are. You do something deeply wrong, you should be held to the bright lights of society. And this is what our children need to learn and accept. You can love your Daddy for all the good he was, but you must also NOT accept the bad as ok. Just because he is Daddy does not make everything he does or did acceptable. Wrong is WRONG
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Re: Pervert gone missing.

Postby Haylieh » Nov 2nd, 2012, 10:27 pm

Never said it did all im saying people who say things like this hurts not the man who did the wrong becuase he cant see this it hurts the family the child she goes to my school and broke down because all she remembers is the good and people keep telling her shes living a lie
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Re: Pervert gone missing.

Postby nlef » Nov 3rd, 2012, 5:23 pm

Tell me, my friends, you who condemn Billy and suggest that he be put to death for his actions, or that he should have committed suicide to rid the world of "monsters" like him...... I challenge you to count how many people you care for are alcoholics and drive a car. I challenge you to count how many people you care for are drug-addicted parents who care for children while flying high. I challenge you to count how often you have heard someone in your workplace bully, or aim a sexual joke at a fellow coworker, and you never said anything to your boss.

The alcoholic driver is a potential murderer because he operates a weapon while intoxicated. Drugged-up parents are potential murderers because, all too often, their children have access to their drugs and easily overdose. You, who knows about the bullying or sexual abuse in the workplace and does nothing, are a potential murderer because, many times, the target of the abuse becomes depressed and may choose suicide as an option when nothing is done to protect them at work.

I can go on and on, but, when you get down to it..... all of the above potential deaths can be prevented, and they are all caused by someone being ill and not in control of their actions. They all suffer from some sort of illness: alcoholism, drug addiction, sexual deviants, etc...

So, does everyone in the above situations deserve to be put to death or ridiculed to the point of suicide? I highly doubt, if it was someone you cared about that gone missing, regardless of what illness they may have suffered from, you would think the same way as you do now.

Take a look in the mirror and think about it, just for a minute, if it was your child, or your brother, your parent, your best friend..... if they were mentally ill and had gone missing, would you stop loving them and wish them death? Or would you wish them to be found and given the medical treatments that may help them? I'd bet my life that you would wish them medical intervention.

PS: I'm a sexual child-abuse survivor, so, I know where I'm coming from... do you? I also have had a very dear loved one disappear without a trace... have you?

Please...... think, long and hard, before you condemn.

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Re: Pervert gone missing.

Postby Haylieh » Nov 3rd, 2012, 6:01 pm

i would not be defending him and im not im telling you and anyone who reads this he was not always like that he did not always have a mentle problem and i do believe what he did was wrong but he was also a good guy as well people do make terrible mistakes and they learn and i do believe he should of whent to jail
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Re: Pervert gone missing.

Postby nativewater » Nov 3rd, 2012, 6:24 pm

The Bill I knew was a nice person, what he did before I do not know; I only know how he was when I knew him, people change.
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Re: Pervert gone missing.

Postby keith1612 » Nov 4th, 2012, 3:39 pm

nlef wrote:Tell me, my friends, you who condemn Billy and suggest that he be put to death for his actions, or that he should have committed suicide to rid the world of "monsters" like him...... I challenge you to count how many people you care for are alcoholics and drive a car. I challenge you to count how many people you care for are drug-addicted parents who care for children while flying high. I challenge you to count how often you have heard someone in your workplace bully, or aim a sexual joke at a fellow coworker, and you never said anything to your boss.

The alcoholic driver is a potential murderer because he operates a weapon while intoxicated. Drugged-up parents are potential murderers because, all too often, their children have access to their drugs and easily overdose. You, who knows about the bullying or sexual abuse in the workplace and does nothing, are a potential murderer because, many times, the target of the abuse becomes depressed and may choose suicide as an option when nothing is done to protect them at work.

I can go on and on, but, when you get down to it..... all of the above potential deaths can be prevented, and they are all caused by someone being ill and not in control of their actions. They all suffer from some sort of illness: alcoholism, drug addiction, sexual deviants, etc...

So, does everyone in the above situations deserve to be put to death or ridiculed to the point of suicide? I highly doubt, if it was someone you cared about that gone missing, regardless of what illness they may have suffered from, you would think the same way as you do now.

Take a look in the mirror and think about it, just for a minute, if it was your child, or your brother, your parent, your best friend..... if they were mentally ill and had gone missing, would you stop loving them and wish them death? Or would you wish them to be found and given the medical treatments that may help them? I'd bet my life that you would wish them medical intervention.

PS: I'm a sexual child-abuse survivor, so, I know where I'm coming from... do you? I also have had a very dear loved one disappear without a trace... have you?

Please...... think, long and hard, before you condemn.

sorry you are totally off the mark if you expect to say a guy having a few beer and driving is the same as some waste of life child sexual pervert.
no way
Canada should have a law, convicted of sexually hurting anyone you are hung the following day.
end of story.
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Re: Pervert gone missing.

Postby Haylieh » Nov 4th, 2012, 6:18 pm

if you truley believe that people should be hung for the wrongs they make your wrong. know matter what they have done they do not derserve to be looked for they do not derserve to have people say "good their gone they derserve that" their family does nopt derserve it mostly
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Re: Pervert gone missing.

Postby keith1612 » Nov 4th, 2012, 6:24 pm

Haylieh wrote:if you truley believe that people should be hung for the wrongs they make your wrong. know matter what they have done they do not derserve to be looked for they do not derserve to have people say "good their gone they derserve that" their family does nopt derserve it mostly


their family may not deserve it but their victims sure do.
they are a waste of life burning up perfectly good oxygen as they hunt more children to rape and kill.
the biggest plus Canada could do would be reinstate the death penalty for this trash.
they family is better off with him long gone also.
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Re: Pervert gone missing.

Postby kgcayenne » Nov 4th, 2012, 6:25 pm

The guilty have done a disservice to their loved ones, not folks like me who yearn for a time when all threats to their children vanish.

He has done this to his loved ones, not the respondents in this forum.
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Re: Pervert gone missing.

Postby nlef » Nov 5th, 2012, 10:08 pm

You know, I really have to agree with you, Keith. Canada should have capital punishment reinstated. Definitely! Let's all write letters to our respective members of Parliament, and ask to have capital punishment reintroduced to our wonderful country! For sure! I'm all for it!

Imagine a perfect Canada, if you will, where a brave soldier returns home from war, suffering from some post-war mental ailment, only to commit unforgivable crimes against his children, his neighbours, his country.... perhaps even plants a bomb under your computer chair, Keith, because, in his madness, he thought you were his enemy. After all, this soldier didn't suffer from any "real" mental illness. No, he knew EXACTLY what he was doing when his mind snapped, didn't he? Yeah, let's just string him up! He doesn't deserve any medical intervention, does he? Because, after all, he's just scum and wasted space on this planet, right?

According to you, Keith, everyone should be allowed to drink and drive drunk. I'm sure all of the mothers against drunk drivers would agree with you! Not to mention the remaining family of Bradley Lentz! http://www.pentictonwesternnews.com/news/149150845.html

By the way, you're best friends with Bob, right? Then, you've probably heard that he's due to be hung tomorrow morning. No biggie, though.... after all, he does suffer from a mental illness and has been sexually abusing his younger brother for years! You know, they even say that his father did the same thing to him, so, as they say, monkey see, monkey do! Bob just followed in his father's footsteps. Bob knew EXACTLY what he was doing, so, yeah, good riddance! I'm definitely going to be paying for front seat tickets.....

Oh my gosh! I have to warn the others against you! You associated with that scum all of your life, therefore you are scum and you should be executed right along with the scum of the earth! I am calling 911 NOW!

Imagine, Keith, if all of Canada thought just like you and executed every person for having a mental illness. What a wonderful world this would be!

I really feel sorry for you, Keith, and all those who think like you! One day, your own narrow-minded, blind rage will stare you straight in the face and you will find yourself alone.

To the dear family and friends of Billy..... pay these idiots no heed. You know your father, your brother, your friend. You know he loved you, and that you loved him. That's all that matters. May you find peace soon.

As for any victims, their families and friends... please, don't keep stuff like this in. Tell someone, ask for help. Learn to forgive. Learn to love yourselves and those around you. Don't let bitterness, rage and revenge block your heart and future happiness. Believe in yourselves and that you can get past this.

And Keith, be sure to bring your noose with you on New Year's Eve..... I think you just might need it the next morning if capital punishment is reinstated!
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Re: Pervert gone missing.

Postby keith1612 » Nov 6th, 2012, 6:16 pm

nlef wrote:You know, I really have to agree with you, Keith. Canada should have capital punishment reinstated. Definitely! Let's all write letters to our respective members of Parliament, and ask to have capital punishment reintroduced to our wonderful country! For sure! I'm all for it!

Imagine a perfect Canada, if you will, where a brave soldier returns home from war, suffering from some post-war mental ailment, only to commit unforgivable crimes against his children, his neighbours, his country.... perhaps even plants a bomb under your computer chair, Keith, because, in his madness, he thought you were his enemy. After all, this soldier didn't suffer from any "real" mental illness. No, he knew EXACTLY what he was doing when his mind snapped, didn't he? Yeah, let's just string him up! He doesn't deserve any medical intervention, does he? Because, after all, he's just scum and wasted space on this planet, right?

According to you, Keith, everyone should be allowed to drink and drive drunk. I'm sure all of the mothers against drunk drivers would agree with you! Not to mention the remaining family of Bradley Lentz! http://www.pentictonwesternnews.com/news/149150845.html
by the way, you're best friends with Bob, right? Then, you've probably heard that he's due to be hung tomorrow morning. No biggie, though.... after all, he does suffer from a mental illness and has been sexually abusing his younger brother for years! You know, they even say that his father did the same thing to him, so, as they say, monkey see, monkey do! Bob just followed in his father's footsteps. Bob knew EXACTLY what he was doing, so, yeah, good riddance! I'm definitely going to be paying for front seat tickets.....

Oh my gosh! I have to warn the others against you! You associated with that scum all of your life, therefore you are scum and you should be executed right along with the scum of the earth! I am calling 911 NOW!

Imagine, Keith, if all of Canada thought just like you and executed every person for having a mental illness. What a wonderful world this would be!

I really feel sorry for you, Keith, and all those who think like you! One day, your own narrow-minded, blind rage will stare you straight in the face and you will find yourself alone.

To the dear family and friends of Billy..... pay these idiots no heed. You know your father, your brother, your friend. You know he loved you, and that you loved him. That's all that matters. May you find peace soon.

As for any victims, their families and friends... please, don't keep stuff like this in. Tell someone, ask for help. Learn to forgive. Learn to love yourselves and those around you. Don't let bitterness, rage and revenge block your heart and future happiness. Believe in yourselves and that you can get past this.

And Keith, be sure to bring your noose with you on New Year's Eve..... I think you just might need it the next morning if capital punishment is reinstated!


what kind of a idiotic mental breakdown rant was that?
honestly?
i never said stop helping mental patients.
as for the rest of your garbage holy.
no sorry im against rapists and believe they are a waste of air.
if you like and want to love and coddle them do it,
but dont get too crazy with the nut bar tree hugging preaching please.
just because i dont like child rapists doesnt mean im travelling around with a noose and a dead deer in my pickup tossing cans out the window.
hey maybe you should cook a turkey and invite the sexual predator to stop in for christmas and open gifts with the kids, im sure he would love it.
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Re: Pervert gone missing.

Postby nlef » Nov 6th, 2012, 7:58 pm

Thanks for the suggestion about the turkey dinner, Keith. But I'm already ahead of you on that one. I feed many a hungry soul who needs help without being judged or condemned for mistakes their mental breakdowns may have caused them to make. They've paid their dues to society, had their counselling and now need a second chance at life. I give them that. Everyone deserves it, even you. I'm hoping Billy is found alive so that his family can begin to heal and he can have the medical intervention he needs to deal with his issues. I find it sad, though, that your heart is so tainted by anger, but I do wish you a happy Christmas, anyways!
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Re: Pervert gone missing.

Postby nlef » Nov 7th, 2012, 10:35 pm

Yes, let's all wish for a Merry Christmas and a safer world for our children and their future children. The world of today is full of far too many angry, hateful and unforgiving people. May the angels of love guide these lost souls to a better frame of mind and may peace and kindness surround those who cry for their missing loved ones. May the angels of hope guide the missing safely home.
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