Suggestions needed

[Even Steven]

Maybe he doesn't know.

God I hope so.

[Even Steven]

As far as I'm concerned, that means 50% or more of guys are filtered-out immediately as being the more selfish, base kind. That actually works to the advantage of many women. Maybe single women should hire 'wing kids'

Well if it's working out so great, why complain?

[the truth]

Or buy a Lambo.?

that should work

[the truth]

I would suggest joining a mixed sports team (volleyball, pickleball, softball, curling etc.). The girls on the teams always have friends :)

worked for me in my 20's ,the good old days

[the truth]

A 20 year old man could easily have a 38 year old *bleep* of a mother.

when I was 26 I had a super hot 39 year old *bleep* for about- 6 months we had lots of fun together

[Ka-El]

*removed*

[Queen K]

I'm think the young man wants a real partner, not a let's waste my life and time with someone who clearly isn't going to be there for me-type.

And truthy, for someone who comes across as conservatively judgemental, I'm shocked.

[mystica]

I am still a little surprised at some of the replies to this topic.......I know I should not be....but there you go.

You hopefully noticed that I did not say that I was looking for ways for my 28 year old son Fred who lives in Vernon, drives a Honda Civic who broke up wit his girlfriend Brenda after 7 years.....etc

No, I was very careful to be general and limited in my info.....my son has no idea that I posted on castanet for some health feedback from hopefully helpful forumites.

If I am invited to go sailing and know little about sailing other than the fact that I would have to help sail it.........I would find out about the type of boat and look up a video so I don't look a total fool.

The same here, I have not had to date in Kelowna ..... I don't know too much about the "young scene". So that was the reason for my post. Hovering is not needed.

No helicopter strings attached but have always fostered a healthy respect for parents and elders in my children. If he brings the topic up again, I want to be informed. I want to be there with suggestions IF I am asked for them

[w84u2]

You sound like a good MOM that has a child that values your opinion. Good for you.

[Fancy]

No harm in helping out your kids at all and I've always encouraged mine to try new things as you never know who you might meet.