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Messages sitting in Outbox?

Postby lightspeed » Dec 23rd, 2017, 9:38 am

They sit there after being sent. Then they're not in the sent messages folder. But they don't go anywhere.

Dead messages.

Why? How to send them....? :-X
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Re: Messages sitting in Outbox?

Postby Queen K » Dec 23rd, 2017, 9:41 am

Hi, I don't think they go anywhere until your recieving poster picks them up. They really do sit there coloured red until they are read by your intended.

I log in and out all the time and come back to messeges awaiting all the time. That's the first thing I do, is pick them up.
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Re: Messages sitting in Outbox?

Postby alanjh595 » Dec 23rd, 2017, 9:45 am

I don't know but, do they sit there when the receiver does not have their PM feature activated? All of my sent and received messages are picked up.
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Re: Messages sitting in Outbox?

Postby alanjh595 » Dec 23rd, 2017, 9:48 am

Could be too that their mailbox is full and it needs to be cleaned out.
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Re: Messages sitting in Outbox?

Postby ferri » Dec 23rd, 2017, 10:04 am

lightspeed wrote:They sit there after being sent. Then they're not in the sent messages folder. But they don't go anywhere.

Dead messages.

Why? How to send them....? :-X


They sit until whoever you sent them to reads them, then they go to your sent box. :)
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Re: Messages sitting in Outbox?

Postby Bsuds » Dec 23rd, 2017, 12:13 pm

ferri wrote:They sit until whoever you sent them to reads them, then they go to your sent box. :)


Some folks just don't care and never read them. If I see something has been sitting in my outbox too long I will delete it.
It's usually not something all that important anyway.
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Re: Messages sitting in Outbox?

Postby Queen K » Jan 6th, 2018, 8:52 pm

I sent someone a message that sat for 6 days.

Now it is gone.

NO, it's really gone. I can't even review it. Usually it's in the 'Sent Messages' box and I can re-read them.

Not this one. It's disappeared.

Completely. What's happened? Can a poster request to Admins to have a message be removed without reading or opening? So it doesn't appear anywhere?
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Re: Messages sitting in Outbox?

Postby Fancy » Jan 6th, 2018, 8:59 pm

that is weird - I have a couple in my inbox but I don't trust the sender so I won't read them. I still have the ones I've sent available for me to read.
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Re: Messages sitting in Outbox?

Postby Bsuds » Jan 6th, 2018, 9:13 pm

Fancy wrote:that is weird - I have a couple in my inbox but I don't trust the sender so I won't read them. I still have the ones I've sent available for me to read.


You can delete them without reading them. You can also block posters from sending you messages.
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Re: Messages sitting in Outbox?

Postby Queen K » Jan 6th, 2018, 9:14 pm

Bsuds wrote:
Fancy wrote:that is weird - I have a couple in my inbox but I don't trust the sender so I won't read them. I still have the ones I've sent available for me to read.


You can delete them without reading them. You can also block posters from sending you messages.


What kind of gutless, spineless, snowflake does that?
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Re: Messages sitting in Outbox?

Postby Fancy » Jan 6th, 2018, 9:21 pm

Nah - the two of them can look at their messages in their outbox until the cows come home. I've warned them and I don't have the curiosity of a cat that needs to look at something that is probably inappropriate. 99% of posters that message me I have no problem with as I've had a chance to get to know them and those messages will remain private. It is weird though that you can't read your sent messages.
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Re: Messages sitting in Outbox?

Postby ferri » Jan 7th, 2018, 8:45 am

Queen K wrote:I sent someone a message that sat for 6 days.

Now it is gone.

NO, it's really gone. I can't even review it. Usually it's in the 'Sent Messages' box and I can re-read them.

Not this one. It's disappeared.

Completely. What's happened? Can a poster request to Admins to have a message be removed without reading or opening? So it doesn't appear anywhere?


No, I can't remove messages like that. And if I could I wouldn't. :D

My guess would be that it was deleted by the recipient.
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Re: Messages sitting in Outbox?

Postby Bsuds » Jan 7th, 2018, 8:47 am

ferri wrote:My guess would be that it was deleted by the recipient.


I guess Trump pushed his big red button!
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