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Oops! My bad....

I'll save it for the "Bickering Room"!
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Kids are collateral damage.
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It appears some would rather see married couples stay together just for the kids, even though the parents are unhappy/miserable together.
Kids may be young, they are not blind to fact there parents are not happy together. impo all that does is make a bunch of unhappy & unhealthy kids, that will become adults (& continue that cycle).

Then there are abusive spouses (be it physical or verbal), unfortunately that doesn't necessarily show its ugly head until after the I do's & kids come along.
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Not all provinces are so easy with the 50/50 as BC is. Even here, family law is stacked heavily in favour of the female.
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The solution is simple yet so complex and expensive. The gov't dictates the terms and conditions of a persons relationship in Canada through family law. People think they are in control of their relationships and children...they are not. Not in Canada.
Solution...To avoid any interference by family law, don't co-habitat. Only safe way is to meet someone/ move to a non reciprocating country. To get away from family law obligations(like paying support for someone else's kids), get out of Canada to a non reciprocating country. Expensive? Yes, but it's way cheaper than paying for the rest of your life .Get your passport and everything($$$) ready before you get into a fight so you are ready and able to leave on a moments notice in case word gets out that you are bailing and no one is able to 'hinder' your departure. If you are on the wrong side of the gender gig and there are kids involved, even if they are not yours...your gonna get creamed. Instead of giving money to a divorce lawyer and to people that see you as nothing more than a meal ticket, spend your money on a immigration lawyer instead $1500-$3000.
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Queen K wrote:
Are you carrying "baggage" that makes you unapproachable now to people?


WHOAT!!! Never. :smt045
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This song capsulates some situations.
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nepal wrote:Kids are collateral damage.


Very sad.
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Divorce is one of the most difficult tribulations a family can go through, but unless you’ve experienced it first-hand, it’s hard to visualize exactly how much damage it causes. An artist known only by the pen-name ‘Mac’ has illustrated how divorce affected their family in a simple, yet deeply saddening comic, and it’s guaranteed to give you all the feels you never asked for today.”
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Perhaps mentioned in previous posts but not going back to check.
Anyway, me, divorced when the kids were 2-4 years old. Both of us realized there is no point in being mean so we were very helpful to each other when it came to the kids. Both of us had to work out of town at times and we made it work regardless if it wasn't " our weekend" Different towns to boot.
Today the boys are in their early 30's and have launched and doing well. Both have good relationships with both parents.

Brother, divorced when the kids were young. ex was nasty and played games with the kids. Late with hand overs, missing visitations etc. The kids grew older and wanted to live with dad. When the kids were teenagers they recognized the games played by mom and had issues with her because of it. Better today though.

Kids grow up divorced parents. They have memories if you start playing games.
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Sometimes couples except smooth sailing all the time, but like the weather, in marriage there are sunny days and stormy days. Try to come back to what made it good at the beginning, and ultimately be there together to enjoy and set an example for your grandchildren.

Sometimes solving adversity makes couples even stronger. If in dire straits, try your honest intelligent best to sort things out, make positive changes for the better, and let somebody else enrich lawyers. Don’t easily give-up, as it only gets far more complicated second time around. Divorce is reserved for extreme situations.
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One comment in video, about how some divorce parents came from whole families, so they have no idea what they are putting their kids through.
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If there is a logical chance to, try to rebuild a marriage. If couples can rebuild a family and provide a good example for their kids, this would be a miracle come true for them.

Rather than calling a lawyer, first learn methods that may save your family.
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There are several types of help to put families on the right, positive, path, such as the two brief examples above.

Unfortunately, marriage, raising children, and household finance, aren’t significant subjects in school. It’s pretty much trial and error and can quickly turn into a mess. Gone are the days when grandparents used to be around to pass-down these skills. Fortunately, now there are more self-education and counselor services available, to help get families on the right path. There are are other solutions to try before divorce.
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Before you call a lawyer, make a list of Pros & Cons of what you are planning, to help decide the best path to take.

Yes, there are clearly dire no option but divorce cases, but some are solvable life-management decisions.
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