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nepal you would rather see a abused spouse continue to be abused, just for the sake of the family unit. Those children learn that it's okay to abuse your spouse, because that is what our parents taught us by staying together.
Because D•I•V•O•R•C•E is so more evil then any physical or verbal abuse.

Yep those will be healthy happy kids... not impo.
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Nepal, just curious due to the content of your posts here and in another thread......did you experience trauma during a divorce of your parents?
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People blame trauma too much. So what if someone divorced. It's up to you to make your life what it is.
If everyone who came from divorced parents went off the mental deep end the world be full of whiners.
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When you have kids, it’s not about you anymore. Know the responsibilities and necessary maturities, before having kids. If you get divorced prior to having kids, then go for it!

https://ifstudies.org/blog/the-adult-children-of-divorce-find-their-voice
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Finances/job-loss and family stress because of it, could put extra strain on many families. Family members may have financial difficulties or lose jobs for various reasons, but adversity is the time for families to take a deep breath and work together to get through tough times.

Use tough financial times to demonstrate to your kids, how to stay calm and think of how to economize and do with less things. This is a time for strengthening your family, doing activities like helping your kids with school work, going for family walks at parks, grow vegetables in pots or yard, doing household chores together, or doing courses to enhance employment opportunities. Take steps to reduce debt, and work on creating employment income prospects and eventually that will happen, maybe even necessitating a move.

Your kids will likely encounter tough times too as adults, so now is your time to teach them how to positively make it through adversity. Be a good example for your kids to model upon.
https://beechacres.org/discussing-job-l ... -children/

Divorce can make life far more complicated and sour for the lifetime of all family members, and become a financial disaster, so to be taken very seriously as a dire last option.
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Or, you can just contact a divorce lawyer.
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Here's one thing to remember:

No good marriage ends in divorce.
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Even Steven wrote:Here's one thing to remember:

No good marriage ends in divorce.


Here's another..........100% of divorces are caused by marriage.
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“A big reason married people accumulate more wealth than others is simple economies of scale - one household is cheaper to maintain than two. Divorce reverses those benefits. Divorce is one of the fastest ways to destroy your wealth” As well, divorce could permanently set your kids back in may ways.
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When tying the knot, do it maturely and right the first time. Life is actually really short and it’s nice for grandparents to spend time together with their grandkids.
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A friend of mine is going through a nasty divorce. They were 4 years away from paying their house off, but now they will have to sell the house to pay off the lawyers, and he will have to start all over at close to 50.
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It was likely nasty because the scum lawyers privately pitted them against each other constantly.

Sad to hear.
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Bill Clarke should not be allowed to practice law ever again. Not the first complaint against him

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The_quiet_one wrote: Jul 15th, 2021, 11:29 am Bill Clarke should not be allowed to practice law ever again. Not the first complaint against him
I REALLY hope you're right!!! NO ETHICS with Bill Clarke. Yes, was on the opposition in what was (at least for me) intended to be an equal and fair division of family assets. Clarke turned it into a 2 year battle complete with (his practice) promoting perjury, frustration of court process and all out war - adult children being collateral damage and objects for the "win at all costs" approach he is a master of. Want a "good lawyer", find one who seeks to remove emotions from the 'business' process of the division. Encourages a mindset of working through this tough time of strife to get through to the place of peace and cooperation that once must have existed (at least at the "I Do" part) - drunken Vegas nuptials notwithstanding. That would be a GREAT divorce lawyer, if that is, you actually want to do best by your spouse and children. If NOT, hire a Bill Clarke - you'll sure be a "winner" then, even at the cost of everyone else.

Poor Billy, I guess that dream of being called to the bench looks rather unlikely now. Threatening your Wife (mother of your child), making false police reports, intimidating a witness, obstructing justice and perjury - how shameful for an 'officer of the court'. Typical divorce lawyer - SNAKE IN THE GRASS. Hope he's tossed from the bar and can't practice either. Thinking he'd make a good used car salesman.
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insight1 wrote: Jul 15th, 2021, 3:40 pm
The_quiet_one wrote: Jul 15th, 2021, 11:29 am Bill Clarke should not be allowed to practice law ever again. Not the first complaint against him
I REALLY hope you're right!!! NO ETHICS with Bill Clarke. Yes, was on the opposition in what was (at least for me) intended to be an equal and fair division of family assets. Clarke turned it into a 2 year battle complete with (his practice) promoting perjury, frustration of court process and all out war - adult children being collateral damage and objects for the "win at all costs" approach he is a master of. Want a "good lawyer", find one who seeks to remove emotions from the 'business' process of the division. Encourages a mindset of working through this tough time of strife to get through to the place of peace and cooperation that once must have existed (at least at the "I Do" part) - drunken Vegas nuptials notwithstanding. That would be a GREAT divorce lawyer, if that is, you actually want to do best by your spouse and children. If NOT, hire a Bill Clarke - you'll sure be a "winner" then, even at the cost of everyone else.

Poor Billy, I guess that dream of being called to the bench looks rather unlikely now. Threatening your Wife (mother of your child), making false police reports, intimidating a witness, obstructing justice and perjury - how shameful for an 'officer of the court'. Typical divorce lawyer - SNAKE IN THE GRASS. Hope he's tossed from the bar and can't practice either. Thinking he'd make a good used car salesman.
All of this is spot on !!! He’s a snake, a lier, didn’t care about kids… I really hope the law society take his licence!! He’s a horrible human being.
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The financial and family cost of divorce can be devastating. From diapers to diapers, our human lifespan often isn’t long enough to recover from catastrophic financial damage such as from divorce.

Life is very short. Typically, we spend a third of our life in childhood and education, a third in building a family and finances, and a third preparing for and retirement. Divorce largely resets the clock for building retirement finances, so for most humans there isn’t enough time to re-save for retirement. So best to get it right the first time! Nobody wants to retire in poverty, never mind the guilt of permanent family destruction, and complexity of step-families. Our modern easy-go 50% divorce society has left many seniors struggling financially, and they have their own life choice actions to reflect upon.

Before divorce, think it all out very carefully, weighing all the pros and cons, with all the long term financial and family costs that will never be recovered. Try harder to make what you have work!. (I get that some spouses are chameleons who don’t turn out to be what spouses married, and a split might be best in those cases)

Take time to make a good relationship choice from the start (there is a suitable mate for everyone, and no relationship is perfect), live happily within your financial means, and help each other. Better to have kids after you are in a firm relationship and stable finances, as divorce is a terrible thing to do to kids.
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A solid first family most often comes out stronger in the long-run, even with bumps along the road, and grandchildren can be enjoyed together. Marriage is a bit like the weather, there will be clear days and stormy days, so caution in making short-sighted life altering decisions.
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