What is internet dating like for women.

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The_quiet_one
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Life becomes much easier when you comfy being single
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This !!! Right there.
Once you learn that you can survive on your own, and you don’t need someone
to “complete” you, that you don’t “need” someone to “save you”, it opens up
a whole new world.
It would be nice to be loved at least once in my life, though. All my thousand
querky parts and all 🥰. But need? No.
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aww, seriously, never loved?
I was wed for a Lifetime, so I have those memories - plus for me I should have stayed single.
Maybe it helps I have always been a bit of a Loner and enjoy my own company.
Helps I am am only child, learned to amuse myself

Funny that there are a lot of women in my area who could intro me to their male friends.. but they seem fixated that I might WANT their man. Frank;y I'm surprised they want them :/

Big big Man end of the street always has my back and his wife is charming
“It is absurd to divide people into good and bad. People are either charming or tedious.”
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It’s on my bucket list 😊
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I've met a girl when I was on a business trip in Vancouver few days ago. Taller than me, a bit younger but not much. We ended up chatting for hours, grabbed food, drinks, etc. She was staying in the same hotel. May be I looked lonely or something but she started talking to me (which almost never happens) when I was sitting in the lobby looking at memes.

Nothing happened, but oh boy I think I saw flirting. Great personality match. May be its a good thing I'll never see her again since she's from Baltimore.
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Even Steven wrote: Dec 4th, 2021, 3:54 pm I've met a girl when I was on a business trip in Vancouver few days ago. Taller than me, a bit younger but not much. We ended up chatting for hours, grabbed food, drinks, etc. She was staying in the same hotel. May be I looked lonely or something but she started talking to me (which almost never happens) when I was sitting in the lobby looking at memes.

Nothing happened, but oh boy I think I saw flirting. Great personality match. May be its a good thing I'll never see her again since she's from Baltimore.
Aww… that made me smile 😊
I bet that made you feel so good inside. What a great way to spend the evening. Even if something did happen, you’re two
consenting adults. I think sometimes you need to feel wanted and desired.
I’m so happy for you.
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I hope you at least got her contact info
Once a handsome man started flirting with me.. grocery store, I was pretty stoked til I remembered I had been eating popcorn while I had my oil changed and prolly had popcorn stuck between my teeth, so I scrambled away

as a rule I don't know flirting if it bit my nose

A gay friend and I were out, he kept pointing out all the Men he thought were possibiblities - HA, they were all HIS type
“It is absurd to divide people into good and bad. People are either charming or tedious.”
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Did you ask her ? She might be the one for you
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Today I have decided to give up dating. It’s exhausting amoung other things.
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Life is easier alone. I think my heart is just too soft. That’s all.
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The_quiet_one wrote: Dec 12th, 2021, 11:55 am Life is easier alone. I think my heart is just too soft. That’s all.
Sometimes the right person shows up when you're not looking.
If the Earth was really flat all the cats would have pushed everything off the edge by now!
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Bsuds wrote: Dec 12th, 2021, 12:04 pm
The_quiet_one wrote: Dec 12th, 2021, 11:55 am Life is easier alone. I think my heart is just too soft. That’s all.
Sometimes the right person shows up when you're not looking.
Sometimes 😔 … today I’m just a little bummed out.
Tomorrow’s a new day
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The_quiet_one wrote: Dec 12th, 2021, 11:55 am Life is easier alone. I think my heart is just too soft. That’s all.
No one needs a life partner to feel fulfilled, productive and happy.
Granted for some they couldn't phantom otherwise.
But really each individual make their own happiness.
Look around and I'm sure you can find many things that bring you joy every day.
Leave your door open (did you fix that door bell yet?) and someone may enter your life one day, if that's what you really wish for.
For now the bright side is, you're free as a bird to do as you please. :D
"Small acts, when multiplied by millions of people, can transform the world." Howard Zinn
It's the simple things in life that brings joy.
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PoplarSoul wrote: Dec 12th, 2021, 12:19 pm
The_quiet_one wrote: Dec 12th, 2021, 11:55 am Life is easier alone. I think my heart is just too soft. That’s all.
No one needs a life partner to feel fulfilled, productive and happy.
Granted for some they couldn't phantom otherwise.
But really each individual make their own happiness.
Look around and I'm sure you can find many things that bring you joy every day.
Leave your door open (did you fix that door bell yet?) and someone may enter your life one day, if that's what you really wish for.
For now the bright side is, you're free as a bird to do as you please. :D
You are so kind. Thank you ❤️
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Sudsy - gotta have a lotto tix to win!
Take heart Quietone, I have really young single women friends who have given up the dating scene ( I need to rethink having young beautiful friends)
I think I'm one and done.. I enjoy my friends without the hassle of having to have some one come on over expecting me to cook and entertain him
I feel Men are faster to latch on to another woman when one leaves for whatever reason as they don't like to be alone
I LOVE my alone time.
Easy peasy to get sex if I want so why commit?
“It is absurd to divide people into good and bad. People are either charming or tedious.”
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I’m just, I don’t know… having a tough day.

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