What is internet dating like for women.

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The_quiet_one wrote: Dec 31st, 2021, 9:11 am the divorce and trial,
And to quote dirtybiker ...
dirtybiker wrote: Dec 30th, 2021, 2:52 pm Life is so much simpler.
Holy mother bleep did you nail it in 5 words brother
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dirtybiker wrote: Dec 30th, 2021, 2:52 pm
The_quiet_one wrote: Dec 30th, 2021, 2:01 pm Are you single ? Lol
Absolutely, I also plan on keeping it that way.
Life is so much simpler.
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Do anything you want, anytime you want.
You can't beat that.
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oldtrucker wrote: Dec 31st, 2021, 9:22 am
The_quiet_one wrote: Dec 31st, 2021, 9:11 am the divorce and trial,
And to quote dirtybiker ...
dirtybiker wrote: Dec 30th, 2021, 2:52 pm Life is so much simpler.
Holy mother bleep did you nail it in 5 words brother
:hailjo:
Ikr? That’s why I hate lawyers. He had one. I didn’t. Him and his lawyer took 5 years to go to trial.
I told his lawyer it was the trial of the century. It was so stupid how much money he paid for his slime ball lawyer.
That’s also why I’ve been single since 2012. Ten years. Now I miss having a friend to do adult things with. Fishing.
Camping. Maybe movie. Dinner. But I don’t know if I’ll ever get married again. It’s just nice to have a friend I think.
The online dating is not working for me.
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If everyone is supposedly equal....why do we have a family law system? Get rid of that and women wont have trouble attracting men. Young men, that's different....they are generally easy to attract cuz they actually think that everyones equal until they find out it aint so...
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The_quiet_one wrote: Dec 31st, 2021, 9:39 am But I don’t know if I’ll ever get married again.
Other than her being eligible for the house, support and child support for kids that may not even be his....what's in this marriage/cohab thing for men? I'm not directing or referring to you quietone, but in the general big picture of how things really work....not the fairy tail.
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oldtrucker wrote: Dec 31st, 2021, 9:51 am
The_quiet_one wrote: Dec 31st, 2021, 9:39 am But I don’t know if I’ll ever get married again.
Other than her being eligible for the house, support and child support for kids that may not even be his....what's in this for men?
Well, he got the house. He brainwashed my kids to hate me and bought them off. He gave them everything they wanted and told me I had to pay him half. Ie… season tickets to big white, brand new everything to ski and snowboard with. He took my kids away from me. And then I had to pay him child support. The man who makes well over 100k verses me on my retirement and disability pay. So, no. It didn’t go well for me. I’ve seen how evil men can be. But I also know not everyone is evil.
I’m also not looking for a man to support me or take care of me. I do that fine all by myself. I will never depend on a man ever again. Does that explain it?
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^^^I know you got hosed....it went the other way in favour of him. That would never happen 20 years ago.
So I say again....Why do we have a family law system? So lawyers and everyone down the line can make money on your pain. Why would anyone want to get into a serious relationship when the gov't enables this corrupt system to dictate the parameters and rules of your cohab/marriage relationship (regardless of gender)?
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The_quiet_one wrote: Dec 31st, 2021, 9:58 am The man who makes well over 100k verses me on my retirement and disability pay.
I'm just gunna leave this here....
You meet the right man, and I mean someone that doesn't play by the rules and lives by old skool man rules...your ex ain't gettin' away with that. If what you said is true...he makes good coin and takes your disability? Nope...that could catch up to him in a very painful way...
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oldtrucker wrote: Dec 31st, 2021, 10:02 am ^^^I know you got hosed....it went the other way in favour of him. That would never happen 20 years ago.
So I say again....Why do we have a family law system? So lawyers and everyone down the line can make money on your pain. Why would anyone want to get into a serious relationship when the gov't enables this corrupt system to dictate the parameters and rules of your cohab/marriage relationship (regardless of gender)?
Cause I miss the comfort of arms around me. Cause I miss laughing with someone.
I miss having dinner with someone. I miss adulting with someone.
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^^^ He's there don't worry.
You just haven't given it enough time online.
Oh....you wanna meet 'generally' old skool conservative leaning men? Go to where there are guns. Get into shooting and join the gun club or a shooting range. You will have what you seek times 10. A girl thats into guns and fishing??? :up: :smt045 You wont be single for long.
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oldtrucker wrote: Dec 31st, 2021, 10:26 am ^^^ He's there don't worry.
You just haven't given it enough time online.
Oh....you wanna meet 'generally' old skool conservative leaning men? Go to where there are guns. Get into shooting and join the gun club or a shooting range. You will have what you seek times 10. A girl thats into guns and fishing??? :up: :smt045 You wont be single for long.
Lol. I’m not a gun girl, but that’s a good idea.
Thank you oldtrucker 😊
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normaM wrote: Dec 31st, 2021, 4:37 pm er, so now it is moved from never been loved to divorce. Girl, you need to sort yourself imo
Cause I had a bad marriage from the get go and thought he would change… cause he said he never loved me.
He only married me cause I was pregnant…
What would you like me to straighten out for you?
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zookeeper wrote: Dec 30th, 2021, 8:46 pm Catz? Is that you?
The_quiet_one wrote: Dec 31st, 2021, 7:59 am Meow 🐱
ETA
I didn’t know how to log onto my old name.
Can’t remember what I had for supper yesterday, so
can’t remember pass words, lol.
So are you Meow 🐱 or not? Those of us who have been here forever remember the turmoil she went through with the ex and her boys.
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oneh2obabe wrote: Dec 31st, 2021, 5:45 pm
zookeeper wrote: Dec 30th, 2021, 8:46 pm Catz? Is that you?
The_quiet_one wrote: Dec 31st, 2021, 7:59 am Meow 🐱
ETA
I didn’t know how to log onto my old name.
Can’t remember what I had for supper yesterday, so
can’t remember pass words, lol.
So are you Meow 🐱 or not? Those of us who have been here forever remember the turmoil she went through with the ex and her boys.
Yes, water babe. It’s me. It was hard for awhile. (My boys and I are very close now. ❤️ They are on their own.)Too much stress. And too much no coping skills. Councelling and many years trying to be a better person. I might not make good choices some days, but I’m human. And I’m in a really good place now. There’s some of you I have missed dearly. Some I see haven’t changed.
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The_quiet_one wrote: Dec 31st, 2021, 5:56 pm There’s some of you I have missed dearly. Some I see haven’t changed.
Reload and try again! :biggrin:

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