What is internet dating like for women.

[The_quiet_one]

I have been off for a bit. I am a new old person.

Catz? Is that you?

Meow
ETA
I didn’t know how to log onto my old name.
Can’t remember what I had for supper yesterday, so
can’t remember pass words, lol.

[Queen K]

Yes, I've kept quiet about the sign up time and the post about missing people, that and that other thing. lol. That's ok, it's good to reinvent yourself, albeit not on purpose this time.

And may I remind dirtybiker, it's only a date if you don't make it weird, like, "Oh we fished together, better get out the wedding bells."

[The_quiet_one]

Yes, I've kept quiet about the sign up time and the post about missing people, that and that other thing. lol. That's ok, it's good to reinvent yourself, albeit not on purpose this time.

And may I remind dirtybiker, it's only a date if you don't make it weird, like, "Oh we fished together, better get out the wedding bells."

I took a break to sort my life out. I was getting too cranky and was not nice for a bit. So did the divorce and trial, did some councelling and came back the old new me. Just didn’t know how to do it. And didn’t know my pass words. I kinda miss talking to you and peeps.

[Queen K]

Isok, we're here now. And about being "not nice" well, some people believe that you are only nice if you agree with everything they say and do. And if you don't, BAM, you're out, and in a big way. And being "nice" all the time is one big albratross to carry around your neck.

[PoplarSoul]

Are you single ? Lol

Absolutely, I also plan on keeping it that way.
Life is so much simpler.

Do anything you want, anytime you want.
You can't beat that.

[The_quiet_one]

the divorce and trial,

And to quote dirtybiker ...

Life is so much simpler.

Holy mother bleep did you nail it in 5 words brother

Ikr? That’s why I hate lawyers. He had one. I didn’t. Him and his lawyer took 5 years to go to trial.
I told his lawyer it was the trial of the century. It was so stupid how much money he paid for his slime ball lawyer.
That’s also why I’ve been single since 2012. Ten years. Now I miss having a friend to do adult things with. Fishing.
Camping. Maybe movie. Dinner. But I don’t know if I’ll ever get married again. It’s just nice to have a friend I think.
The online dating is not working for me.

[The_quiet_one]

But I don’t know if I’ll ever get married again.

Other than her being eligible for the house, support and child support for kids that may not even be his....what's in this for men?

Well, he got the house. He brainwashed my kids to hate me and bought them off. He gave them everything they wanted and told me I had to pay him half. Ie… season tickets to big white, brand new everything to ski and snowboard with. He took my kids away from me. And then I had to pay him child support. The man who makes well over 100k verses me on my retirement and disability pay. So, no. It didn’t go well for me. I’ve seen how evil men can be. But I also know not everyone is evil.
I’m also not looking for a man to support me or take care of me. I do that fine all by myself. I will never depend on a man ever again. Does that explain it?

[The_quiet_one]

^^^I know you got hosed....it went the other way in favour of him. That would never happen 20 years ago.
So I say again....Why do we have a family law system? So lawyers and everyone down the line can make money on your pain. Why would anyone want to get into a serious relationship when the gov't enables this corrupt system to dictate the parameters and rules of your cohab/marriage relationship (regardless of gender)?

Cause I miss the comfort of arms around me. Cause I miss laughing with someone.
I miss having dinner with someone. I miss adulting with someone.

[The_quiet_one]

^^^ He's there don't worry.
You just haven't given it enough time online.
Oh....you wanna meet 'generally' old skool conservative leaning men? Go to where there are guns. Get into shooting and join the gun club or a shooting range. You will have what you seek times 10. A girl thats into guns and fishing??? You wont be single for long.

Lol. I’m not a gun girl, but that’s a good idea.
Thank you oldtrucker

[The_quiet_one]

er, so now it is moved from never been loved to divorce. Girl, you need to sort yourself imo

Cause I had a bad marriage from the get go and thought he would change… cause he said he never loved me.
He only married me cause I was pregnant…
What would you like me to straighten out for you?

[oneh2obabe]

Catz? Is that you?

Meow
ETA
I didn’t know how to log onto my old name.
Can’t remember what I had for supper yesterday, so
can’t remember pass words, lol.

So are you Meow or not? Those of us who have been here forever remember the turmoil she went through with the ex and her boys.

[The_quiet_one]

Catz? Is that you?

Meow
ETA
I didn’t know how to log onto my old name.
Can’t remember what I had for supper yesterday, so
can’t remember pass words, lol.

So are you Meow or not? Those of us who have been here forever remember the turmoil she went through with the ex and her boys.

Yes, water babe. It’s me. It was hard for awhile. (My boys and I are very close now. They are on their own.)Too much stress. And too much no coping skills. Councelling and many years trying to be a better person. I might not make good choices some days, but I’m human. And I’m in a really good place now. There’s some of you I have missed dearly. Some I see haven’t changed.

[Bsuds]

There’s some of you I have missed dearly. Some I see haven’t changed.

Reload and try again!

Hi Catz! Happy New Year!

[The_quiet_one]

There’s some of you I have missed dearly. Some I see haven’t changed.

Reload and try again!

Hi Catz! Happy New Year!

Aww … thank you so much Hugs to you and Mrs. I have missed you

[Queen K]

Waterbabe is right, some of us who have been here forever do recall things, some even came over to your house to help out. Nom de Plum for example. We welcome you back.